Whose Side are You On?

Whose Side are You On?

I ask clients who are working to resolve a conflict: “Whose side are you on?” There may not be another person involved, just another version of yourself.

We all can have dualities within us.

 

The question is meant to rattle you into considering the strength of your feelings. The unconscious mind may be directing you toward your best outcome, but the conscious and critical mind can be leading you to procrastinate, de-value and even avoid taking the steps that will move you toward success.

You need to understand the choices you make so that you can create new and better ways to reach your goals.