When clients come to me for help with their issues, I often ask them to remember what it was like to be a child. Not everyone has great memories of childhood, but to remember what it was like to be…
The map is not the territory is the same as the metaphor: the menu isn’t the meal. Just as you can’t eat the menu, the fundamental to NLP presupposition reminds us that what we consider the ‘map’ is just…
Do you Have to Have Talent? Clients come to me to improve their self-confidence and one related issue is that of feeling ‘talented’ or not. You may find yourself stopping a project because it isn’t living up to a standard,…
Comparing You to Me You may draw a comparison between yourself and others as motivation to improve yourself in private life or work. More often than not though, drawing a comparison is not motivating and ends up being…
The Pleasure of Uncertainty When a client comes to me feeling insecure over various aspects of her life, I introduce the idea of insecurity being an aspect of uncertainty. You will feel a definite pleasure in uncertainty if you realize…
