Who is Talking Inside Your Head?

Who is Talking Inside Your Head? If you come to me for help with self-talk I’ll ask you who is talking inside your head? Can you identify the you in there or is your mother? Perhaps it’s another family member…

Self-Talk as Self-Defense

Self-Talk as  Self-Defense Self-talk as  self-defense is a common way we use the habit of talking to ourselves. I’ve had clients work on their inner-talk by paying attention and writing in their journals only to discover they feel more anxiety,…

What Keeps You Awake?

What Keeps You Awake?   I ask clients who come to me with issues over anxiety and insomnia, ‘what keeps you awake’? It may take a few moments but most of you know what keeps you awake: that inner voice.…