6 Mistakes and Pain Relief
6 Mistakes and Pain Relief
With pain relief, I’m sure we can all think of more than 6 mistakes, but here are some basic mistakes for you to consider:
- We make ourselves tense and hold our bodies rigidly against the pain instead of relaxing and discovering how we might soften toward it.
- We focus on it to the exclusion of all else around us.
- We don’t know how to distract ourselves.
- We tell people about it who can’t help us. It’s normal to want sympathy, but it tends to backfire when you tell anyone who’ll listen about your pain.
- We begin to let ourselves become isolated. Once you’ve told everyone who’ll listen about your pain, you’re left with a sense of loneliness.
- We forget to practice self-hypnosis techniques that will help us take control of the pain ourselves.
(next post for some suggestions to eliminate these mistakes)
Ask Imagine Changes:
Question: How can I stop from talking about my pain all the time?
Imagine Changes: Try this: As you start to talk about it, pause and fully consider if it’s what you really want to do right at that moment. You’ll make the right decision.